Life...a word which is really difficult to describe and even more difficult to lead... But still every human being even the animals are leading their lives in their own specificc ways!!! Now i wanna say that the problem we have in life is that we use great subtle and skill to avoid getting to the source of our pain n sufferings even white sometimes pretending that we are open to change . Unfortunately this doent lessen the painand suffering we experience and our lives are badly degraded from the various ways we deal with it.
So the choice we have to shut out the pain n sufferigs and confusions and put our REAL SELVES aside and behave that we are OK/FINE. We can choose to become real if when we were very young we had any kind of trauma,abuse abandonment,or even just confusion in early life or childhood it set up a deep pain in our core beings. To cope with this pain and sufferings,we created unconsiously a unique survival strategy that enabled us to survive and make our way through life.
We took on ideas,beliefs about the reality of ourselves and life,as a way of dealing with the pain,fear,confusion and as a guide on how to act. As adults, we continue to create the contentand experience of our lives according to those believes and survival strategies. We manipulate the people and events around us to them them to collude with and confirm our world views.
Unfortunately the way of being is not so useful to us now,it's creating a new kind of pain and suffering through inappropriate,unconcious self-limitationand conflict. Eventually,some just give up and remain limited closed down lives with their wonderous intelligence,conciousness and life locked away supressed and inactive.
Thus people become so selfish,self content,self centerd they really can't think of others because they themselves suffer so much and have to cop up with so much around them in this hard and fast life. Earlier lives were not too tough so people were not like now they had a lot of emotions understood so much about others pain etc... Maybe because this world is becoming so materialised like every thing so technological u dont have the way to express your emotions face to face. You put some smiley and express so peope are losing the way of expressiong themselves and as a reason of which they are what they are becoming today today's generation,today's children. They get everything what today's children want mostly mobile,laptop,television everything and they really are losing the sense to value things. Relationships now a days are so fragmented like they have a lot of options outside no one cares no body(many).WORLD TURNING IN A DANGEROUS AND DEPRESSING PLACE TO LIVE IN.......TOMORROW IS SO UNCERTAIN!!!!!
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